Any relationship that you’re into, & has lasted for at least a year, & both of you are not considering marrying each other might need a review. After one year of genuine intentions, nothing about marriage discussions should come as a surprise to you.
Love is NEVER enough. You see all those girls that will say “you say you love me but can’t take care of me?” Forget them in a hurry. You see those men that will say “I love you baby & I’ll spoil you with money?” Forget them in a hurry.
Men & Women don’t need to brag about their natural roles. A man or a woman that is committed to you will naturally play his/her role without making a fuss about it. They should be talking about the “whens” & not “ifs”. We use if to introduce a possible or unreal situation/condition.
We use when to refer to the time of a future situation or condition that we are certain of. Whoever you’re currently dating should be CERTAIN of you. Not guessing. You get in relationships to LEARN how to love each other, you’re not suppose to automatically know.
People assume this and are too quick to break up. People are being sold an unrealistic image of relationships, and eventually the projections break down. On the other hand, there’s something in human nature that makes those who “just get it” earn extra points. Similarly, there’s no substitute for genuine burning desire.
Unlearn And Re-Learn. Never Compromise Just Evolve Together. No Score Card Counting, No Ledger Booking
Love Intentionally Guided With Value For Good For Each Other !
Good Is The Very Guide.
Love Worth Living For !
We rise